When Teddi Mellencamp swiped right on a dating app in San Antonio, Texas, she wasn’t just looking for a distraction—she was searching for something real. And according to the former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star, she found it.
On the latest episode of iHeartRadio’s Two Ts In A Pod, Mellencamp opened up about her new relationship with a“nice country boy”she met on Hinge after adjusting her location. The connection feels different this time around. She describes the early days as feeling like she’s a teenager again—and that’s coming from someone who recently moved past 13 years of marriage with Edwin Arroyave. The two filed for divorce in November 2024, citing irreconcilable differences, and she’s seeking primary custody of their three children.
What makes this new romance feel so fresh? For starters, he actually shows up. She’s joking about“groundhog dating”—that frustrating cycle of dating the same personality type over and over—and this guy breaks the mold. He has kids of his own, he’s genuine, and he puts in effort. They spend hours on the phone every night like lovestruck teenagers, and there’s a moment she describes with almost giddy delight: he literally swept her off her feet when he kissed her. It’s the kind of old-school romantic gesture that apparently caught her off guard after navigating more recent dating experiences.
What’s particularly noteworthy is how authentic Mellencamp has been about her vulnerabilities. Before meeting him in person, she told him about her Stage 4 cancer battle and the hair loss that came with it. He didn’t flinch. That openness—and his acceptance—seems to have set a different tone for the whole relationship. This isn’t someone hiding parts of herself or playing games.
The timing also puts things into perspective. During the podcast, cohost Tamra Barney mentioned that fans had spotted Edwin Arroyave at Nobu with his new girlfriend. Mellencamp admitted the photos hit harder than expected, not because of jealousy but because of finality—it drove home that her marriage really was over. While she joked that people had been“this diligent”while they were still together, there was an underlying acknowledgment that life has moved on for both of them.
For Mellencamp, it’s less about who her ex is dating and more about the fact that she’s found someone who makes her feel like herself again—complete with all her history, all her flaws, and all her strength. That’s the real headline here.
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Ava Hart
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