Love Is Blind's Alexa Regrets Skipping the Prenup She Once Wanted

Sometimes the best advice comes wrapped in hindsight and regret. Love Is Blind alum Alexa Lemieux is learning that lesson the hard way, and she’s not holding back about what she’d do differently if she could travel back to the pods.

When Alexa, 31, sat down on the Thursday, May 21 episode of the“He Said G Said”podcast with hosts Giannina Gibelli and Blake Horstmann, she was frank about one decision that’s haunting her now: backing away from the prenuptial agreement she originally wanted to sign with her then-fiancé Brennon Lemieux. The twist? Brennon was on board at the time. She wasn’t. And now, as her divorce from him winds through the system, she’s become an unlikely advocate for what many couples see as a relationship buzzkill.

Her argument is actually refreshingly logical. Alexa explained that the shame surrounding prenups stems from a superstitious fear—the idea that signing one jinxes the marriage before it even starts. But that’s the wrong time to feel that way, she reasoned. When you’re getting married, you’re in love, thinking clearly, and willing to protect both parties fairly. When you’re divorcing? That’s when emotions turn ugly.“When you’re in divorce, you’re kind of like,‘F*** you,’[and] you know, that’s normal,”Alexa said. The prenup, she argued, should be signed by the people who actually care about each other’s wellbeing—not the versions of yourselves that emerge when things fall apart.

Alexa and Brennon got married in 2021 and welcomed daughter Vienna in 2024. Brennon quietly filed for divorce in November 2025, with Alexa announcing their separation that December after four years of marriage. Despite the split, they’re making it work where it counts: coparenting. Alexa said they’re already“doing pretty well,”trying to have dinner together and maintaining a friendly dynamic for Vienna’s sake. The goal, she said, is to keep things as normal as possible for their daughter, even when the parents aren’t together anymore.

What’s striking about Alexa’s openness is that she’s not bashing Brennon or playing victim. Instead, she’s reframing the prenup conversation as a practical, loving act—something couples do when they’re thinking straight and genuinely want the best for each other. If Love Is Blind made one thing clear through Alexa’s journey, it’s this: the couples who thrive aren’t the ones who avoid hard conversations. They’re the ones honest enough to have them.