Alexa Lemieux on Divorce: We're Doing Pretty Well

There’s a particular kind of maturity on display when two people who once stood at an altar can still text each other cordially while navigating the messiness of a breakup. Love Is Blind alum Alexa Lemieux is living that reality right now, and she’s handling it with a clarity that’s refreshing to hear.

In a Thursday, May 21 appearance on the“He Said G Said”podcast, the 31-year-old opened up about where things stand with estranged husband Brennon Lemieux, 35, following their separation announcement last December. The pair married in 2021 after meeting sight unseen on Love Is Blind season 3, and they share daughter Vienna, born in 2024. What struck Alexa most was the peculiar torture of living under the same roof while dissolving a marriage.“You’re living under the same roof, and it’s a very different dynamic [while] going through a divorce,”she explained.“You’re going to things and then you’re coming back under the same roof, then you’re also dealing with s*** online and people saying things, and you’re still in the same house.”They moved out about two months before the podcast taping—a shift that, by her account, made everything easier.

What’s notable here isn’t just that they’re co-parenting amicably (though they are). It’s that Alexa has done the harder work of reframing the end of her marriage as an opportunity rather than a failure. She’s excited about dating again, about being pursued, about a second chapter that doesn’t exist in the shadow of her first serious relationship.“I’m really happy and grateful that I get a second chance at life,”she said. That’s not bitter. That’s someone who’s chosen to see forward.

And yet—because real life isn’t a neat narrative arc—she’s also grounded in the present reality. Brennon is still texting her. He’s still Vienna’s father. He’s still going to be in her life forever. Her boundary is simple and honest: all she needs from him is good parenting, and he delivers on that.“I wish him all the happiness,”she added. It’s a small sentence that carries real weight, especially in a landscape where celebrity breakups often turn into public scorched-earth campaigns.

The takeaway isn’t that their marriage ending is some feel-good story. Divorce is hard, full stop. But Alexa’s willingness to see Brennon as a co-parent rather than an enemy, and to celebrate her own growth without diminishing what they shared, suggests that some couples can genuinely choose grace over drama—even when the whole internet is watching.