In the wake of recent violent incidents in Northern California, a pressing question emerges for parents: how do you talk to your kids about such troubling topics? Sacramento County Senior Chaplain Deborah Fontes shares essential insights on this issue, stressing the importance of open and honest communication. Many children might say they’re “fine” after such events, but we know they might be trying to mask their fears.
Fontes encourages parents to listen actively and trust their instincts when it comes to recognizing if their children are struggling. It’s not enough to assume everything is okay just because kids don’t articulate their feelings. Holding conversations about fears, concerns, and thoughts can bring families closer together, fostering a supportive environment for kids to express themselves.
And remember, reaching out for resources such as chaplaincy or counseling services can also provide much-needed support. In difficult times, listening and communication can truly make a world of difference. Who knew that discussing feelings could be just as crucial as discussing homework?
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